缺点

我的心思很细腻
我的想法很乱不全面
我不够专心
我做事没有追根究底
想太多没有建设性

it's not okay. recognize it.

things are not okay. whatever other people say, sweet talking, making you feel good. 

you know it, and you have to take action, make changes, start and kick off the old habits. 

there is no end for those dark nights crying over the negativity, no help, no solution, and really, nobody likes it. 

take the action to change the situation. you know what to do. so be on the right track and do it. 

what you put out there is who you are, what people would learn about you. 

be who you want to be, and don just think about it. 

start doing things. 

江苏卫视2013跨年演唱会-Part8-王力宏、孙杨-HD

成长路上有你陪我，给了我鼓励与前进的动力。你的成功，让我有梦想，有一天会成功。各人有各人的路途要走，我不懂偶像，可是我欣赏向上，努力的为人。我不懂你的全部，可是每个人都有值得欣赏的地方。我还在寻找我的方向。可是现阶段，我想做个努力，有担当的人。作快乐的事，做有用的事，做好事。大学生出社会讨生活，最害怕迷失方向，怕失败，可是我提醒自己，万事起头难。模糊模糊迷迷蒙蒙，按部就班做自己应该做的，就能摸索到了。是吧？

相信自己 开始行动

最近有点累，有点烦

说话要小心翼翼，因为常常口若悬河，却说着些伤己的话

说了又不快乐，又不会给任何人带来好处

安静些吧。。或许会好一点

不要不快乐

因为每一天的每一刻

都无比的珍贵

不要想着想着

要做有好影响的事

就开始行动

说话是说话

认识与了解

不要比较

要坚守与知道

自己要做的事

林靖雨-寫的是夏天 有些歌適合聽，卻不適合唱。有些人依然留戀，卻不敢想念。 有些故事沒有結局，卻不覺得可惜； 有些回憶無法忘記，只能放在心底。

Entertainment news from Perthnow.com.au

Taylor Swift is demonstrating how to sustain stardom and effectively navigate into adulthood. Sure, she has made some dubious choices in boyfriends, but aside from that her career - we met her at 16 and she'll turn 24 in December - has been exemplary.

Here are some things we've learned from her approach.

1) Write from your age and experience: No young artist in the history of popular music has been more effective at writing songs reflecting what it's like to be her age. Witness her songs Fifteen and 22. This isn't Carly Rae Jepsen, at 27, writing Call Me Maybe as if she's 17.

2) Work with collaborators who will help you grow: She's been writing songs since she was 12. But after she moved to Nashville and signed a record deal at 14, she worked with various professional Nashville co-writers. When she decided to go in a more concerted pop direction for last year'sRed album, she turned to experienced popmeisters, including Max Martin (Britney Spears, Kelly Clarkson, Katy Perry, Pink, Ke$ha) and Dan Wilson (Adele, Pink).

3) Be who you are: Her songs ring true because they are her ideas and her stories; the pros just help edit her ideas. She hasn't tried to grow up too fast - though she has dated older guys - so her fans can still relate to her.

Swift dated John Mayer in 2009/10. Picture: Supplied Source: AP

4) Do your homework and be prepared: When she hosted Saturday Night Live in 2009, she showed up with a long list of ideas for sketches. And when she appeared on Late Night With Jimmy Fallon that week, she spent all of her time quizzing him about SNL.

5) Be fearless: It's not just the title of her second album; it's her approach to life. The first time she performed in the Twin Cities, she hit the stage solo, playing an acoustic guitar version of rapper Eminem's Lose Yourself. Since then, she has rapped with T-Pain in a video and performed with an unlikely list of stars including the Rolling Stones, Stevie Nicks, Ellie Goulding, Carly Simon, Def Leppard and the Civil Wars. She's even talking about starring in a biopic of Joni Mitchell.

Taylor Swift performs with special guest Jennifer Lopez in LA. Getty Images Source: Getty Images

6) Make time for fans: What other superstar does four meet-and-greets with fans at each concert? Not to mention all the tweeting, blogging and Facebook postings. When she announced her Red album last year, she did it with a webcast surrounded by a gaggle of fans. She knows where her bread is buttered.

Swift poses with fans at the 2013 Toronto International Film Festival. AP Photo/The Canadian PressSource: AP

7) Work hard: Since 2006, she has released four studio albums, three live albums, three EPs and 30 music video clips; undertaken three headlining world tours encompassing 278 concerts (after three years of opening concerts for other stars); appeared in four movies and four TV shows, and given countless interviews. She writes or co-writes her own songs - 67 for her four studio discs.

Kanye West rudely upstages Swift during the 2009 MTV VMA’s. Photo by Christopher Polk/Getty Images Source: Getty Images

8) Don't be a puppet: Be involved in decision-making. She's a visionary, thinking of everything from music video concepts while she's writing the song, to how to assemble her touring show, to marketing her third perfume. On herRed album, she was listed as "creative director." She is actually her own manager, though a "tour manager" does a lot of heavy lifting and dirty work under her direction.